FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)

In Matthew 6:33, Jesus gives us a key to great relationships. When we seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, all other things (including great relationships) will be given to us as well.

What does it mean to seek first God’s kingdom? Well, as believers, we always need to be conscious of advancing Jesus’ cause in this world. And what does it mean to seek His righteousness? Here is where many relationships struggle. You see, if you aren’t progressively getting more established in the fact that you’re right with God, you’re going to search for that feeling of love and significance elsewhere.

Many people try to get this need for significance filled through their careers. They’re drawn to the accolades they get at work. While there is nothing wrong with wanting to succeed, this drive to move up the ladder can become their entire focus, leading their life like a carrot before a donkey—even at the expense of their relationships.

On the other hand, the more we seek the significance and righteousness that comes from being loved by God, the more settled we are. Instead of giving it all to our careers in an endless struggle to be good enough, we’re able to feel good about ourselves because of that love we have from God—and then we’re able to prioritize our work, play and relationships in a healthy way.

The truth is there is nothing you could do to ever make God love you more or less. He loves and values you just as you are. Keep studying His Word to know it, believe it and establish it deep in your heart.